Attracting a God-fearing man as a life partner in this day and age is not child’s play.
Amarachi is my niece. He has lived 25 years here on Earth without a partner. She had insisted that any man she allowed into her life must be a godly man.
Amarachi was born into a Christian family. His parents are devout Christians. If their devotion was anything to go through, they are already saints here on Earth. And they strive to raise all their children in the way of the Lord. Amarachi happens to be his first child. And they used all their energies, spiritual and physical, to ensure that Amarachi becomes another Mother Mary here on Earth.
However, she had gone through kindergarten, elementary school, college, graduated as a chemical engineer, and is now gainfully employed.
She is mature in every way and now independent.
But there comes a time in a woman’s life when she really needs a man in her life. For Amarachi, that moment has come.
However, he has been an attractive man, but the challenge was that he had been demanding. She wants a true man of God. This has left her in a world of loneliness.
She has been dealing with feelings of worthlessness and low self-esteem. At one point in her life, she began to deal with self-confidence issues. She felt that it is not lovable. Or is there something wrong with me? he reflected. She got confused. She got frustrated. She felt abandoned.
The truth is that this type of situation is lived better than described. I myself was in this valley years ago. And from my experience and research on the experiences of others, it is possible to attract a Christian man into your life, but you need the following strategies.
 Good Character
For you to attract a man of your dreams and a good Christian, your character must be honest. You must be a woman of good character. Are you always considerate? Are you telling the truth no matter what? Do you strive to help others? Are you charitable? Does your life inspire or encourage anyone you come into contact with? You are kind?
 Service
Are you always ready to serve? To attract quality God-fearing men into your life, you must be open to serving both God and man. If you want to be a leader; if you want to be discovered; is in service. In your family, serve. In your workplace, serve. And even in your local church, serve. The Scripture says that if you want to be the greatest, you must be a servant.
 Self-monitoring
As a mature human being, there could be a time when your emotions will try to dictate your next steps towards the opposite sex. Not only that, there might be a time when he might be so upset over a bad deed from someone he respects so much. What are you going to do? Just take any action regardless of the consequences? No! This is where self-control comes in. This is where self-control becomes important. Can you never tell if you’re just getting tested?!
 Opening
Are you always your authentic self? Being open and vulnerable attracts men like a flower attracts bees. You can discuss anything and everything with the goal of coming to an amicable compromise and creating peace at all times. Tell it like it is, albeit in a very friendly way.
 Forgive
To err is human but to forgive is divine, they say. We offend each other most of the time. But what makes the world go round is the ability we all have to forgive each other. But what I have discovered over time is that there are some people who find it very difficult to forgive. On the other hand, your willingness and ability to forgive others can make you attracted to the man of your dreams.
Some people claim that it is actually easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a lady to attract a godly man for a life partner. But previous proven strategies have nullified such a claim.