It is very possible to get a man quickly, when all the other women around you are struggling. You just have to have a plan, the right vision, backed up by the right actions. Go to the right places, be frank with friends, take care of your wardrobe, be nice, converse easily with men, avoid sex on the first date, and most importantly, force the hand of the man you’re talking to.
Go to the fucking gym and all the other places where men go
Getting a man is like all other activities, the ones that put in the most effort are more successful than the others. You have to actively participate in the search for a man to get one. Of course, you have to put it on your agenda to actively look for a man without seeming desperate. Go to the places that men frequent. The gym is one of them, the church, shopping malls and social places. You will never find a man in your house. If you’re busy feeling miserable at home, wondering how the perfect man will find you, he won’t. You are in a wrong place. Your home is the wrong place to find Mr. Perfect. But you must remember one thing; The type of man you get will largely depend on where you hang out. A lousy place will produce lousy men. That’s a fact.
Ask your friends for help
Your friends will never help you if they don’t know about your problem. They will only give you a hand if you ask them to introduce you to the right men. They are women too, so they know the evils of going single, especially growing old without one, so they are in a position to lend an honest hand. Try to let them know exactly what you are looking for and why. Are you looking for a long lasting relationship or a short fling? Whatever it is, tell your friends clearly. They must know exactly what to get for you.
Touch up your wardrobe
Please be smart, attractive without appearing threatening. If you are a professional lady, please relax. Men will never try to flirt with you if you look formal most of the time. Leave office suits for official functions. Men will fear and not communicate with you if you look official all the time. You must appear approachable.
smile and be nice
You will always find women who in the back of their minds are looking for a partner, but their appearance says the opposite. They are angry and it is not pleasant to be around. What man in his normal senses would want to be around an angry person? I don’t think you’ll find many. So please be nice, smile.
Make conversations with men.
If a man strikes up a conversation, don’t look at him like he’s from outer space. If you look at them with sophistication it will take you a lifetime to find a partner. A lady was looking for a partner and in her internet advertisement she said that she was looking for an academic for intelligent discussions. She also said that she was busy finishing her Ph.D.
For God’s sake, he was narrowing his options down to a very small number of people. Many men aren’t stupid, but saying you’re looking for someone to talk to about nanophysics will limit your chances.
Don’t be an early victim
Sex on the first date is a no-no. If you have sex on the first date, it means that you are a person of loose mornings or it can be interpreted to mean that. It’s rare that you maintain that relationship. If a guy leaves because he didn’t screw you on the first meeting, it just means he was still going to do the same if he got it. Good riddance let it go.
Use a traditional healer to force his hand.
This is what most of you don’t think about. But it can be of help. If you see a man you want to attract, it is very useful to force this man’s hand using metaphysical powers. These metaphysical powers will do wonders for you. Get help from the right psychic or traditional healer.