You want to know how to make a Cancer man forgive you. It’s happening. You did something that caused your guy to feel emotional pain and get mad at you. You already know that Cancer men withdraw into themselves when they’ve been wronged. They squeeze their emotions and tend to hold grudges. Depending on what you did wrong, it may take some time for him to understand why you did it and then forgive you. However, it is possible if he understands the steps he must follow.
Learning how to make a Cancer man forgive you starts with understanding that these men cannot tolerate confrontation. Usually they won’t even participate in it. If you argued and now you want to work on the point so that he understands your point of view, don’t. He will close and want distance. It’s not uncommon for a man born under this sign to go missing for a while after something hurt him. It’s his way of regrouping and controlling what he’s feeling so he can express it clearly when he talks to you.
You’ll also notice that your apology may seem to fall on deaf ears. If you try to say you’re sorry too soon, he’ll dismiss it as just saying it out of courtesy or to sweep the issue under the rug. Wait a few days before telling him you’re sorry. If you can’t reach him by phone to apologize, compose an email explaining his regrets and send it. Don’t get too musky or emotional in your email. It’s not going to have an impact on him if he’s still upset with you. In fact, he may start to see your emotional outbursts as childish and a sign of immaturity.
Once he starts talking to you again, be direct and confident. Let him know that you are sorry and that you will make sure that what he did does not happen again. Then he set out to prove that point to her. Show him that you have learned from your mistake and that you are mature enough to admit it.
It’s important to note that out of all the zodiac signs, Cancers seem to hold a grudge the longest. They never really forget if they feel wronged, but they will forgive. Be prepared to hear him bring it up from time to time as a way of reminding you that he remembers. Handle yourself well during those times and he will do it less and less.