Are you struggling to potty train your toddler? Believe it or not, there is a right way and a wrong way to do everything. Every child is different, so potty training will vary from toddler to toddler. Here are some helpful suggestions to consider at that stage in life when your toddler is potty training.
Probably the biggest and most important aspect of potty training your toddler is recognition and encouragement. Like everything we do in life, it is more beneficial to focus on the positive rather than the negative. Some young children will take much longer than others their age; it might even take a year or more to become fully comfortable and potty trained. As they get closer and closer to perfecting the “art of potty training,” celebrate with them. Some parents find it helpful to put a chart on the wall and reward their child with a sticker. Accept the fact now that there are going to be accidents. Let them know it’s okay and focus on getting it right next time. If you insist that they just don’t get it, you will drag the process out much longer.
Young children are easily influenced by their environment, and this includes bathroom etiquette. If they see family members using the bathroom, you can be sure they are watching closely. It is best if everyone participates in helping your child as well. If you see a sibling doing all the right steps, and mom or dad does the same, it will help them get up to speed faster. By carefully following the steps involved in using the potty, from start to finish, you will have more success sooner. Model proper potty training using your favorite bear or doll. This includes removing the doll’s pants, sitting her on the toilet, cleaning her, and dressing her again. Involve them in these steps so that they take an active role. Every time they complete all the steps, all the steps, reward them with praise, encouragement, and a sticker or something similar.
As I mentioned earlier, your child’s toilet training will vary from case to case. Your child may not be ready to train as soon as other toddlers her age. If there’s stress around you—a new baby, changes in living arrangements, or illness—it’s best to wait. You need a long enough, stress-free period of time that can be set aside to train your child effectively. A young child’s attention span is very short and making sure she focuses will help complete the process.