You’ve no doubt heard of sexting, where people send each other dirty photos of themselves through their phones. But have you heard of dirty texting? This is becoming more common as couples lead busy lives that keep them apart most of the time.
It’s a great way to stay close to each other and get excited about each other, just by sending a few dirty texts throughout the day. If it’s a back-and-forth thing, it’ll keep you both looking forward to your next live, skin-to-skin in-person encounter.
Dirty texts are usually understood as simple one- or two-sentence suggestions of what one party would like the other to do at the moment.
The party receiving the message responds in the affirmative and also suggests something they could do in bed that is kinky, meaningful to the other, or just plain new, bold, and surprisingly sexy.
The filthier the words used in these exchanges, the more enticing they will be, planting images in the minds of both of you of things to look forward to the next time you meet. It will really help your sex life take off.
However, one important thing to remember about dirty text messages is to be SURE that no one sees those messages except you. (This has to be especially true if you’re having an affair and you’re married to someone else and you want to keep it that way.)
Make absolutely sure that your wife or husband never sees those messages. It’s good practice to simply delete them (and your replies) as soon as you receive them, so that if your spouse gets hold of your phone, there’s no evidence of her misdeeds.
Tiger Woods, the famous golfer, recently got into trouble with his wife over sexy text messages he was receiving from women he was dating. While his own sexual text messages may not turn out to be the media circus that his did, he still doesn’t want to deal with the private scene that would ensue if those texts were discovered. Therefore, discretion is always key in these situations.
Fortunately, the vast majority of people who use sexual text messages are single or in a relationship with each other, so there’s really no danger to either party if someone else discovers the text messages (although there may be some embarrassment involved). if their mother or boss finds them).
Oh, one last really IMPORTANT point about dirty texting. Check and then check again, before you hit the ‘Send’ button, who is it about to be sent to! There is a long red-faced line of those who, innocently enjoying some dirty texts with their partner, got overly excited and accidentally sent a text message detailing what they were going to do to the recipient of the message in full gory detail only to find out! they just sent it to the wrong person!
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The dirty text technique is a great way for couples who have to spend a lot of time apart to stay in their thoughts throughout the day. A quick dirty text at lunch or around bedtime will make the other person smile and know you’re thinking of them. That’s the best way to reach out and touch someone in the digital world.