Here’s a question that serious men ask after a breakup: “What happened?” One day, your ex girlfriend is really loving the ground you walk on. And now she’s telling you that she just wants to be friends. What the hell happened? I’m going to tell you and you may not like what I have to say. But I’m going to tell you anyway, because that’s why you’re here anyway.
Your ex lost the desire for you. That’s it, the attraction is gone, for the moment anyway. You see, it’s a proven fact that women like men who are dominant. Since the days of cavemen, women have been genetically programmed to look for a man to support them in some way. Now how was that for your ex, who knows. Is it sex, is it safety, is it humor, whatever your ex lost that feeling? Now, your job to get it back is to find out what that was.
You really have to take a gut check here and remember what he fell for you with. Now this is not something you are going to go up and ask him, it is something you have to ask yourself. How have I changed? And you will have a lot of time to think about it, because most likely, she will want to be in your arms again. You have to create that desire again.
Well, now that I’ve bet you, I want you to know that there’s a good chance your ex will come back. However, he must have a game plan. And the first thing in your plan to do is act like you’re okay with the breakup. You’ll really have to put on your game face here. No matter how hard it is, you can’t lose your temper, cry and beg here back. He will make you look like a lesser man. You have to appear strong, even though he is killing you inside.
You see, this is part of a proven plan to get your ex-girlfriend back. I know because this was part of my plan, when I lost my ex before I got her back. She made him think that maybe I made a mistake leaving him. And once I realized what she was doing wrong, to make her go away, I became the dominant man again. This took about two weeks, so you can see it’s not something that happens overnight.
You should also do it as part of your plan, “The No Contact Rule.” You have to make me miss you. No emails, no cars, no drunk calls late at night. You really have to make him miss you. And I’m telling you, this works better than you think. This is all part of my plan that I used and it will help you. But what you have to have is a game plan, and you have to work on it. It may seem difficult, but your ex is not worth it. I almost guarantee that if you have a good game plan and work on it you will have another chance. So I hope you don’t screw it up the second time after she comes home.