If you’re reading this, then you want to know how to get it back after a breakup.
There are a number of ways to do this sort of thing, but truth be told, a lot of them don’t work and none of them will work on every man.
You know him best, so take a look at these tips and choose the ones that you think will have the best effect on your guy.
Tip 1: Ask to talk to him by making him think it was his idea.
This may sound difficult, but it really isn’t.
When you do talk (many couples who broke up still talk to each other), let him know that you’re sorry for how the relationship ended and maybe one day he’ll tell you why.
Leave it at that and move on to lighter topics of conversation.
He may not do it right away, but he will eventually have that conversation with you and think that since he started it, it really was his idea to do it.
Turning power over to him makes him feel more in control of the situation and therefore much more likely to open up to you.
It sounds weird but it’s true.
Tip 2: Once the breakup has happened, give it a few weeks of no contact.
Time will allow him to have some space and he will start to miss you.
Once you hear from him again (they always call you sometime after the breakup), you should let him know that you’re okay with the breakup and that you hope you can still be friends.
Once he knows you’re okay with not being with him, he’ll want you back almost immediately.
Men always want what they think they can no longer have and your man will be no different.
This is one of the best ways to win him back after a breakup.
Tip 3: Drop little things to stir up your memory.
While you don’t want to call him constantly, check in from time to time just to keep you on his mind.
For example, you can send him a text saying that you just watched a movie and it made you think of him since you first watched it together.
Then add something casual, like asking how he’s been.
Don’t text him again until he replies to the first message, and even then, only text him if it seems like he’s carrying on a conversation.
If he simply says “I’m fine,” leave it for now and try again later.
Tip 4: Act like you don’t care.
If you run into him somewhere, pretend he means nothing to you.
Don’t be rude but be nonchalant when you see him.
It will drive him crazy wondering why you are not suddenly pining for him.
These are all great tips on how to get it back after a breakup, so pick one or try them all because one will surely work!