“Should I remind you that the reason you care so much, sometimes even care so much, is because there is still between you and life, a passionate love affair?
And because of this, everything will be alright.
xxoo,
The universe”
Never take life too seriously, as many stress experts would say. Accepting changes with open arms does not make you passive; it simply allows you to learn to be more flexible and more understanding of life’s uncertainties. To truly understand what happiness should be, is to accept the things you cannot control and, whatever it is, figure out how to extract the positive from every negative situation. You need to look at things through a different pair of lenses, where the old one would focus you too much on the bad, where the good is something that stares you right in the eye but you’re too blind to pay attention. Obviously, some bad things in life don’t have positive outcomes, no matter how positive you are, but these are the times when you need to step back and give yourself time to analyze the existing situation and draw your own conclusion. Sometime these moments have no conclusion at all, and that’s absolutely fine.
Life will do what it wants and unless you learn to accept that, you will never really live your life. Constantly fighting him is a losing battle, so why bother? Imagine facing Mike Tyson in the boxing ring in his heyday, where he got to train hard while you never bothered to work out before the fight. Based on this scenario, tell me how that will work out for you. Not very well, right? Well, try to see life the same way. There are things that we cannot change no matter how hard we try. Regardless of what stands between your life concerns and the actual results of your life, you must learn to appreciate things more and be grateful.