Problems come up numerous times during the child-rearing process and seem to become more apparent during the potty-training process. Some children like the idea of growing up, while others show some problems with potty training.
Sometimes it depends on the age of the child and if they are ready to start this process. Some toddlers are ready for potty training when they are 1½ years old, while others are not until they are 3 years old. It also means training parents or other caregivers, as they are an important part of everything. Some experts say it can take six to eight months to fully complete daytime potty training. It may take even longer to understand how you stay dry at night. This is why parents need to remain calm and patient, because there are bound to be problems with potty training. You should never let the child feel that a mistake is her fault.
If you’re having trouble with certain issues, one suggestion is to ask your doctor if there’s a reason for it. Kids won’t want to taste something that hurts, so if they have a urinary tract infection or are constipated, that could be the reason for the situation.
Another problem could be a real fear of the bathroom. Some young children are afraid of flushing, so a small potty chair can be helpful. A book to go to the bathroom sometimes has the sound of the chain. This can help with fear.
One step in eliminating “near misses” is to help the child understand the difference between going and feeling. Many times they go away when you pick them up, but they don’t recognize the physical signs otherwise. Most importantly, you should not get angry or upset during potty training problems as this will create more problems.