So what is the best way to stop premature ejaculation? I can tell you that there are a few ways, but today I am going to share with you a technique that I used and it turned out to be quite effective. It was actually more effective when my wife participated. Here it is:
The squeeze of the hot shower
When you jump in the shower, get used to the lukewarm water and slowly turn the heat up. Pass the main stream over the head of your penis and start manipulating it to make it erect. Once there, pet him, exposing as much of the head as possible to the hot water. This heat will be comparable to the heat inside the vagina.
You want to monitor your breathing and strokes, making sure to take deep breaths along with medium speed strokes. When you recognize that you are getting close to the “point of no return”, move your penis out of the water and squeeze the edge of the head with your thumb on top and your first two fingers under the edge of the head.
Once you have lowered your arousal level, repeat the process. You can do this as many times as you like, but for ejaculatory system training purposes, I recommend 3-4 times as a minimum.
Let your partner in on the action
To make it as real as possible, without penetration, have your lover stroke it under hot water for you. There’s something about someone else stroking it that’s much more exhilarating than doing it yourself. When he feels the urge to ejaculate, stop him and ask him to squeeze for you. Again, she repeats as many times as you like.
This is a great technique that I have used and it works quite well. What I really liked about having my wife in the shower with me was that after the rest time after the third stoking session, my wife was also excited and we had sex right there in the shower. Now that’s a great way to stop premature ejaculation!